Mindy and I were discussing the other day the many challenges that we have faced in the past few years. We moved, I changed jobs (twice), we took in a foster child, illness, we have had financial setbacks, the economy itself, etc., etc. We have done many things to work on these issues. We have studied books, attended seminars, studied more books, listened to books on tape, all in the effort to understand our problems and overcome them. Our goals and intentions were good, but our focus for at least the past 5 years has been on our problems. We have unwittingly fed and encouraged our problems by constantly studying them, thinking about them and living them.

How many of us are doing this in almost every aspect of our lives? We often focus on what we do not have or what is currently stressing us. We seldom have a goal, an aspiration or desire for what we actually want...

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